Do you follow David Price?
I recently came across this interesting passage in one of his articles:
"Occasionally someone will lecture me about some final answer they know about that I have yet to find, even though I seem to be intelligent enough. I’ve noticed it’s almost always a person of masculine persuasion, who has decided to ‘know’ something. I think knowing is best when it’s tentative, that if it’s final you risk becoming didactic and, frankly, dull. If someone is offended by questioning, and especially by wonder, I don’t see how they could be an artist or even discover anything new".